so, re:question 2, i'd say that it's not about "being with a woman" but being with that person in particular. so, what i value most is the specific characteristics of that person and the way they shape the relationship. insofar as i can express an opinion on this, really.

and re:question 5, i hide my sexuality because i wouldn't necessarily know what to say and if you don't know the person well it's not easy to go into the details.

and if my answers don't make sense, am sorry. it's like, 5am and i can't sleep.