I can understand what you mean, cause that's how I feel about telling anyone I'm bi. Which, techincally has only been a handful of people, but still I was so afraid and so sick to my stomach and yet, I do feel better about having told them. Fortunately, they are friends who love me (I've never come out to anyone in my family and probably never will, so you're much more courageous than I!) and took it rather well and are still my friends...but anyway, yes. I can understand the dislike of the coming out process. *hugs*